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Child Guidance Report
The astrological Child Guidance Profile includes how much discipline
a particular child may need, the tendencies to ailments and upsets
that may be associated with that child, and the positive potentials
for the child's development. You might even be interested in reading
a profile of the child you used to be. Ten to twelve pages, plus
a beautiful color birth wheel.
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Here's my dream
In my dream, my 8-year-old daughter drowned in a lake. I didn't see a funeral as I woke up right after finding out that she had drowned. Can you please tell me what this dream means? I woke up in a state of panic. Thank you very much.
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Dear
Dreamer
In all likelihood, the dream is about some type of an overwhelming emotional experience (e.g. drowning in a lake) that you or your daughter is going through right now. If the dream is about you, it might be related to some kind of a problem dealing with home and family. If the dream is about your daughter, it suggests that she is giving a problem or an issue that she doesn't know how to deal with on her own. I hope this helps. – |
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Here's my dream
I dreamt that my 13-year-old
son was killed by a motorbike, and my mother rushed to tell me. As she
was telling me that my son had been killed, I kept saying, "Don't be
silly, he is here, right next to me." She disagreed and said I was just
being silly. I was the only one who could see him standing next to me,
and then he started singing in a fantastic voice (which my son does
not have). I woke at 4 in the morning, crying. It was so real I wanted
to go and cuddle him. I could not get back to sleep, and when he left
to go to school in the morning I really didn't want him to go. I was
even going to drive him there, but he said he wanted to walk. I haven't
told anyone about this apart from my best friend, because if has really
shocked me. Please can you help me to find out what this means, as I
am really afraid to leave him now.
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Dear
Dreamer
Although it
is possible to dream about events before they occur, most dreams dealing
with the death of a loved one have absolutely nothing to do with death.
Therefore, the dream is in all likelihood metaphorical and not literal.
With this in mind, one possibility suggested by the dream is that various
people in your life (such as your mother and friends) may be given you
advice about the raising of your son because they believe you are in
the process of "losing him" (e.g. not enough parental guidance and supervision).
However, in the dream you are pointing out that you can still see that
your son is fine. His beautiful singing voice indicates that part of
your parenting approach has actually enabled him to express himself
in ways that are extremely beneficial. I hope that helps. – |
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Here's my dream
Please help.
I have had a recurring dream for years and years about my son. He is
now 21 but in these dreams it's always the same. He is around 4 or 5
years old and is always dead in these dreams. I sometimes see him when
he was that age and I feel the pain. I feel the grief; I can't deal
with the fact that I lost my son in this dream. I literally cannot shake
this when it happens it seems so, so real. I'm crying, shaking in the
dream. It's so painful. I have been having these dreams for years. Last
week I actually had another but this time I saw him again as being 4
or 5 but then I saw my son in the same dream at his age now and for
the first time I was able to see, or think I said, he is not dead there
he is. Please help with this dream. I'm literally sick when I wake up
its so real. What does this mean?
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Dear
Dreamer
Let
me suggest a possibility for you to consider. When your son was the
age of 4 or 5, you probably considered him your "baby," and may even
think back on that period as one of your favorites in terms of being
a mother. With this in mind, over the years whenever you've had experiences
in which your son did something to challenge your love or exert the
fact that he is a young adult or somehow bring you frustration about
being a mother, you may have had a dream that symbolized your feeling
that your baby is "dead." In other words, he was not longer the young
innocent child you once had to take care of. I hope that helps. – |
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Here's my dream
This
is the second dream I have had about a little boy being sexually molested.
The child is about 8 or 9 years old (I have a grandson that age).
In this dream I saw a man molesting the boy and looked for a stick
to make him leave the child alone but by the time I found a stick
the man had taken the child into the woods. I went searching for them
but instead found the child's father who said the boy had been molested
but was back home. I said call the Police.
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Dear
Dreamer
The
dream can have several interpretations. The fact that Michael Jackson
is currently in the news might have also played a role in triggering
this type of imagery. If I had the dream, let me give you the two
interpretations I would feel most comfortable considering: 1) If I
had a grandson of the same age, I would wonder if my grandson was
undergoing some type of challenge or trauma (not necessarily sexual)
and needed my help and assistance; 2) alternatively, I would wonder
if I was somehow being abused (e.g. emotionally) in a situation that
was about as old as my grandson's age (e.g. work, for example). In
either event, it suggests that someone is feeling overpowered by something
they do not know how to deal with. I hope this ends up being helpful.
Good luck to you.– |
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Here's my dream
I have a four-month-old
son; he is my first child. I had a dream that I can't forget, and
had me so terrified that it woke me up. I was dreaming that I was
bathing my son when suddenly he slipped out of my hand and rolled
into a deep section of water. He went under and was drowning. I could
see him struggling and knew he could not save himself and was going
to die. I was trying with all my might to save him but only had the
use of one hand as my other hand was stuck behind my back with a handbag
stuck on my wrist preventing me from moving my arm to the front of
my body. I tried grabbing my son's arm but I was not strong enough
with just one hand to pull him up. I felt complete terror and was
screaming and crying. Before he could drown or die I woke up. My heart
was racing so fast and I still felt completely scared..
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Dear
Dreamer Rather
than seeing the dream as a literal possibility, a metaphorical interpretation
is much more likely. If your son symbolizes you and your state of
mind since becoming a mother, the dream is suggesting that the experience
has at times been emotionally overwhelming and there are times when
you are not certain you can cope. The fact that your hand is tied
behind your back because of the purse could indicate that childcare
to give you a break may not be an option because of financial constraints.
If this is true, let me suggest several things. 1) You need to find
a relative or friend that you can talk to and perhaps ask to help
you once in awhile. 2) Another option would be to find a friend with
her own child and offer to take care of each others child once in
awhile to give each of you a periodic break. 3) Know that the feelings
of being overwhelmed with an infant are quite common, and generally
pass in time. 4) Depending on your state of mind, you may also wish
to contact your local community services to see if there are any appropriate
services and/or support systems in place. Good luck to you.
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Here's my dream
I dreamed that I was having sex with my 17-year-old son. It was so real. It has bothered me for so long I have not spoken to anyone about this dream. When I woke up I was devastated. Can you please tell me what this dream mean? I have never dreamed anything like this.
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Dear Dreamer
Let me respond from a couple of perspectives. At one
level, many individuals so equate love with sex that sometimes a dream
can use sex as a symbol for love. The dream might have been trying
to show you that in spite of challenges with your son, ultimately
the two of you still loved each other. In all likelihood, however,
I think the dream was also demonstrating a past-life connection between
the two of you. In other words, part of your connection in the present
may be due to the fact that you were once a couple. Let me recommend
that you read a couple of books that deal with reincarnation and relationships,
such as Edgar Cayce on Soul Mates, by Kevin Todeschi, and Children's
Past Lives, by Carol Bowman. –
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Here's my dream
I'm 24 years old and I have 2 children. Lately I've had a number of dreams that one of my daughters is dead. In the latest dream, she drowned in a sea or swimming pool and I was so sad in my dream that I actually woke up crying. Sometimes I dream that I have the child of someone else but that I lose him, and when they ask me about the child I don't know what happened. Could you please tell me what this means? I'm afraid of losing one of my daughters.
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Dear Dreamer
Although
a literal interpretation suggests that you need to be extremely cautious
of your daughter around any kind of water, a more likely interpretation
is a metaphorical one. From a metaphorical perspective, the dream
suggests that your daughter (or yourself) is being continually emotionally
overwhelmed by life's events and may need some kind of help or even
therapy. Drowning can be associated with being emotionally overwhelmed.
Also, when the second dream about losing someone else's child is taken
into consideration, it suggests that you may sometimes feel as if
you have lost your own "inner child," in terms of your hopes, dreams,
and life's expectations. If I had these dreams, they would suggest
to me that I was overwhelmed by life's events and that I had lost
track of what I really wanted to do with my life. If this is the case,
consider finding a counselor to talk to. You may also wish to read
the book, Discovering Your Soul's Purpose, by Mark Thurston. –
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Here's my dream
I have 2 children and then my husband had a vasectomy. We have talked about having it reversed for about 4 years. I have been having the same recurring dream for almost three years. I see a baby just as plain as day. It is a boy and he has dark hair and chubby cheeks. He is a very happy baby and he is about three months old. The exact same baby keeps coming back to me every few months. The weird thing is that my mother has just told me that she has had the same dream with the same description for almost three years too. She asked if I did have a boy what would his name be and she said it was the same name from her dreams. Please help me.
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Dear Dreamer
The dream
seems pretty obvious in that a particular soul has chosen you to be
his parents and he keeps trying to relate that information as you decide
whether or not you should consider having another baby. Let me recommend
the book, Born to Live, by Dr. Gladys T. McGarey.
It will help you decide. – |
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Here's my dream
My sister's one-and-a-half year old son cries in his sleep occasionally saying, "Mama...Bow Bow." Dogs are "bow bow" for him. He must be dreaming about a dog or dogs. Then my sister consoles him and he stops crying (sleeping all the while). Is there a reason a baby is having nightmares? They don't have a dog in their house. Is there something the parents should do?
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Dear Dreamer
The
Edgar Cayce readings suggest that children's nightmares can be helped
by pre-sleep suggestion. As the child is falling asleep, have one
of the parents sit nearby and calmly say such things as: "You are
in a safe place...Mommy and Daddy are here, you have nothing to worry
about...Everything is fine...You are in your own bed." And so on.
The whole while simply reassuring the child and making the child understand
that he/she is completely safe. That's how to solve the problem. In
terms of why it is happening, oftentimes these events are connected
to issues in waking life (such as at home or school) that the child
does not know how to deal with. However, it is just as likely that
the event is connected to some kind of unresolved past-life trauma.
If the boy's parents are open to this possibility, I would recommend
the book Children's Past Lives, by Carol Bowman.
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Here's my dream
I have 2 sons, ages 8 and 16 months. My husband and I have been debating having another child, as I am almost 36-years-old and the clock is ticking. Three boys would be cool and a girl would be great! This past week I dreamt that my sister was pregnant (she's 46 and has her tubes tied) and she whispered to me that if the child were a girl, she would give it to me. Then last night I had a dream that I was pregnant with my brother's child (he's 50, with an 18 year old). What the heck does this mean? The main reason my husband and I aren't having another child is financial; we would need a larger vehicle and we aren't comfortable with the amount of debt we have. Any clue about my family giving us a baby?
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Dear Dreamer
The
most obvious interpretation is that the dream is trying to show you
that you are putting too much pressure on having another child now
before you get "too old." After all, in the dream your sister is 46
and your brother is 50. From this perspective, the dream might be
saying that another child is a likely possibility, but it is okay
to wait a few more years. Unless your family is about to ask you to
help with babysitting or childcare, I think the dream is trying to
tell you to relax and wait awhile. – |
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Here's my dream
I woke up
this morning in terror because of the dream I had and I was hoping maybe
someone could help me with this. I dreamt that my 4-year-old son was
killed in a horrific car accident by his biological father when he was
1-1/2. All of the details are hazy but I remember screaming throughout
the entire dream that "he killed my baby" and there was a
lot of blood in the dream but not from the accident I was the one bleeding
in the dream also at the very end of the dream I find out that my ex
received 29 years in prison for this. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Dear Dreamer
A strong possibility suggested by the dream is that your son symbolizes
your relationship with your ex, and that because of that experience
there has been a personal "death," perhaps in terms of your
being able to trust other men or perhaps in the way you deal with other
relationships. Note that you are the one that is bleeding in the dream.
It would be interesting to discover whether you were involved with this
man for a 1-1/2 years and/or whether either one of you was 29 at the
time. If the dream is symbolic of your former relationship, it could
suggest that this is still an issue for you and may have resurfaced
at this time because of a new relationship that has presented itself.
If this is all the case, then I would recommend seeing a counselor about
getting past whatever happened to you with the former boyfriend. I hope
that helps. – |
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Here's my dream
I had a dream
the other night that my 14-year-old son was having homosexual sex with
our neighbor's 14-year-old son. It was a pretty explicit dream. I walked
in on the whole thing in the dream. I am so upset by this; does this
mean my son will be gay? Or is there an underlying meaning about relationships
and changes between my son and myself.
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Dear Dreamer
If
the dream is about your son and literal, the dream suggests that either
your son is gay or he is questioning his sexuality. If this is the case,
you are having the dream as a means of being able to help him and understand
him. If the dream is metaphorical, it suggests that your son may be
doing something that you would find disturbing. In either event, I would
recommend trying to talk to your son about how he's doing, what he's
feeling, as well as his worries and fears. During that talk, it would
be good to reassure him that you love him no matter what. – |
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Here's my dream
I am 46, never married, with no children - although 3 chances to have a child early on and one miscarriage. I had a hysterectomy 6 months ago, and then quit a corporate job to pursue my dream of being an artist one month later. Recently, I've had 2 dreams where I am cruel to babies. In one I am kicking a baby crawling on the ground, and in the other dream, I am driving, and a baby in the passenger seat is irritating me, and I start hitting and slapping it, causing it much harm. I am very disturbed by these, as I am a gentle, kind human being. I was abused as a 3-year-old, and again at 10 or so. These violent dreams are quite unsettling. Thank you for your assistance; I hope I'm not going crazy.
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Dear Dreamer
No
you are not crazy. A child can be symbolic of new beginning, a new
endeavor, a new job, and so forth. The fact that you are abusing this
child could indicate that you have been highly critical and even "abusive"
of your own talents, ability, or even critical of the fact that you
chose to pursuer art in the first place. Alternately, since you had
the experience if abusive as a child, the abuse might be a symbol
of having your external world angry, scary, and totally out of your
control. The actual interpretation of these dreams will depend upon
how you're doing in this new field, as well as how supportive you
are of yourself. I hope that helps.- |
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Here's my dream
Last night
I dreamt that I saw my 20-year-old daughter's car severed in two pieces.
I saw the front half of the car and then the second half in a different
area. I then saw my daughter and she was physically okay but upset.
She said that she ran into a semi truck and then I woke up. Please help
me understand what this means, so I can warn her if she needs to take
precautions. Thank you.
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Dear Dreamer
If
the dream is literal, it suggests that your daughter needs to be very
careful with her driving and that you may wish to surround her with
prayer. However, a just as likely interpretation has to do with your
daughter's life's direction. In other words, a car can be symbolic of
a life's direction. If this is the case, then it suggests that something
your daughter is hoping to do or planning to do with her life is about
to come to an abrupt and sudden end (e.g. a relationship, a job, etc.).
I hope this helps. - |
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Here's my dream
I dreamed that
a car hit my 22-month-old granddaughter and she was thrown to the sidewalk.
I remember being confused and looking down and seeing my purse on the
floor and seeing my granddaughter on the sidewalk. I remember telling
a white male that was selling watches to call 911 for an ambulance and
then my granddaughter got up and walked towards me and said, “Mom,”
while pointing to her neck. As she opened her mouth I noticed blood
coming out. My granddaughter’s mother then called and I spoke
with her but did not tell her what had happened. I am really scared
and nervous since I care for my granddaughter and now I am scared to
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Dear Dreamer
The
dream could have many possible meanings, rather than the literal interpretation
you have feared. As a basic overview, consider the following: your purse
is suggestive of something valuable, a watch can be symbolic of timing,
a neck can be connected to a person’s free will, a car wreck can
be connected to an unexpected change in life’s direction, blood
coming out of someone’s mouth might indicate the communication
of the end of something. With all of these things in mind, one strong
possibility suggested by the dream is that your daughter may communicate
with you the fact that she is moving or being transferred – a
change that will definitely impact the relationship you have been having
with your granddaughter.- |
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Here's my dream
I just awoke crying
due to a horrible dream I just had. I was with my son at his DoJo
(karate studio) speaking with his sensei. My son (7-years-old) found
this huge brown intermediate belt hooked across the top of the stairs
and hooked to the other wall like a really high up streamer. My son
got on to slide across and the sensei went to follow him. I heard
a thud and looked down in shock. My son was lying on the ground with
a pool of blood around him. The sensei said, "You better go down
there because there is blood coming out of his ear,"so I did
and when I saw him he couldn't hardly talk and he was bleeding from
his eyes and slowly died in my arms. What does this mean? I am afraid
to let him go to school or karate because I am afraid that he is going
to have a bad accident and die.
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Dear Dreamer
A
dream like this certainly suggests that you should talk to you son
about being careful in his karate activities, but it doesn't suggest
you need to tell your son the dream or worry that it is definitely
literal. A metaphorical dream could suggest that in his desire to
grow up (e.g. climb the stairs; reach for the brown belt), more and
more often you may be feeling like he is no longer listening to you
(e.g. bleeding from the ear), or acknowledging you when you talk to
him (e.g. bleeding from the eyes). In other words, sometimes you might
get the feeling that the little boy you once had is dead. I think
the dream is more about your own feelings than it is about any danger
associated with you son but to be on the safe side talk to him about
being cautious. - |
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Here's my dream
I am a 32-year-old single
mother f one 7-year-old son. I keep having a repetitive dream that
I think I am pregnant: my stomach is huge and I can feel the baby
inside of me but when I get to the hospital the doctors all say that
I am not pregnant, or that they’re not sure if I am pregnant
and leave me feeling extremely confused or disappointed. I wake up
feeling sad. In these dreams I usually end up in the hospital not
because I think I am pregnant, but because of an auto accident, or
occasionally because I am feeling ill. Is someone somewhere trying
to tell me that I will never have another baby? |
Dear Dreamer
In all likelihood
the dream has nothing to do with a literal baby but is instead about
some kind of a new beginning that you are constantly on the verge
of “giving birth” to. Since these dreams are often connected
to an auto accident of some kind and since traveling by car is often
indicative of a person’s life journey, I think the dreams are
more about your career and your direction in life then they are about
children. For example, if you are constantly on the verge of starting
a new career path or following-through on some kind of personal dream,
the dreams are suggesting that you never follow-through to completion
and give yourself the opportunity to give birth to the new life. This
indecision may be leaving you “extremely confused,” “disappointed,”
and “sad.” If this sounds like what is going on in your
life, you may need a book that will help you discover what you were
meant to be in life: Discovering Your Soul’s Purpose
by Mark Thurston. You can find the book at this link: www.arebookstore.com.
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Here's my dream
I keep having a repeated dream that my youngest
son (now 29) is a small child and he never has any clean clothes.
Either there are no clothes in his drawer or closet, or what he
does have are patched, frayed and worn out hand-me-downs from his
older brother. I’ve had this dream repeatedly for years. |
Dear Dreamer
In all likelihood, the dream
is a metaphorical dream and suggests that you have a number of personal
ideas and projects (symbolized by your son) that you have been neglecting.
They may need to be cleaned off and updated and given material manifestation
– rather than just ideas, they need to become concrete. If the
dream is a literal dream about your son (or any of your other children),
then it suggests that you are still taking responsibilities for things
that should be theirs to do. If this is the case, then your subconscious
mind has symbolized this immature behavior on the part of your children
into the child you see depicted in the dream. - |
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Here's my dream
To give
a little bit of history, my grandfather, who passed away while I
was pregnant with my first child, sexually abused me as a child.
It has been 10 years since he died, and I have gone through a divorce
and have 2 children from my previous marriage. I am getting remarried
next summer, and my fiancée and I hope to have at least one
more child together. In my dream, I am in a duck-hunting field and
my entire family is there shooting ducks and there were little white
foxes running away from the shooting into the brush. I was lying
facedown on the ground to avoid being shot at because I was unarmed
and unaware of where I was at the moment. A man walked up to me
and I knew his laughter the instant he got there. I looked up and
my deceased grandfather was looking down at me, laughing, and he
was holding what I knew to be my newest child (I am not pregnant
at this time but I knew it was my little boy). The baby was a toddler,
about a year old, and he was laughing and reaching out to play with
the gun my grandfather was shooting with. I watched in horror for
a second as my grandfather raised the gun, barrel facing up at the
ducks, but pulled close to his body in a rather unusual shooting
position, and my little boy reached out to play with the barrel
just as my grandfather shot off a round, while he was still staring
down at me and laughing. I woke instantly in shear terror that my
baby had been hurt. I don’t understand the significance of
this dream. Can you help me please?
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Dear Dreamer
A strong possibility suggested by the
dream is that in spite of the passage of time your own “inner
child” is still be injured by this experience with your grandfather.
Interestingly enough, in a dream a gun can be symbolic of aggressive
male sexual behavior. The dream may be occurring now as a means of
encouraging you to seek counseling to get the experience over with
and behind you so that it does not continue to affect you or your
new marriage. Good luck to you. - |
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Here's my dream
Occasionally
I have dreams that later come true. I’m worried that a dream
I had last year will come true. In it I found myself standing in a
white room, there was a podium at the front with a closed book sitting
on it. Then a man dressed in white robe walked up to the podium and
opened the book and started reading it. He had long brown hair and
a long beard, I realized that it was God. I was dressed in blue. He
read for a few minutes and then he looked up at me and said “Okay,
your son is scheduled to die in a car crash when he’s twenty-five.”
I started crying and I said “I will give my life for him.”
He stood there looking at me for a while so I said, “I WILL
give my life for him!!” and he said all right. That’s
when I woke up. I would like to know if this dream will come true.
I’m thirty-six and my son is seventeen. Thank you. |
Dear
dreamer
The future is not fixed. Even
if the dream is a possible future, it is not inevitable. The dream
may have simply occurred as a means of assisting you to help your
son make better choices in terms of his life’s direction. In
other words, if you were having ongoing behavioral problems with your
son at the time of the dream, the dream is showing one possible outcome
if things continue along the same lines. However, there are also other
likely interpretations. The dream may be suggesting that your son’s
life (or even your own) will change dramatically when he is twenty-five.
If I had the dream, I would see it as an indication that I need to
“give up” a part of my life in the present as a means
of focusing special time and energy on my child who may need more
attention at this time than he is telling you. -
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Here's my dream
I’m
24 and I live in Las Vegas with my family. Lately I have been having
horrible dreams about my mother dying: she dies in a car crash and
then she dies of cancer. In real life my mother has been in a couple
of car accidents – one almost killed her about 7 years ago.
She also had cancer when I was 7 and she was in the hospital for a
long time but she recovered from it and the cancer is gone. She was
recently diagnosed with cancer around the same area she had it when
I was 7, but the doctors tell her it can’t spread anywhere to
hurt her, but I’m really concerned about these dreams I have
about her dying. Can you please help me and tell me what this means.
It’s making me not want to sleep because I can’t deal
with another dream of my mother dying. |
Dear
dreamer
If your mother is symbolic of
your own higher self, rather than literally your mother, a metaphorical
interpretation of the dream could suggest that you have been frustrated
about your own life’s direction lately (e.g. car crash) as well
as about your inability to speak up regarding something that is bothering
you / eating you up (e.g. cancer). With this in mind, one possibility
suggested by the dream is that you have been very frustrated about
either what you are supposed to do with you life, what you want to
do with your life, or how to get out of doing something that part
of you really doesn’t want to do. If this is the case, then
let me recommend the book, Discovering Your
Soul’s Purpose, by Mark
Thurston. -
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Here's my dream
My
husband was unemployed for the better part of a year and spent a lot
of time home with my daughter and me. He recently got a job that allows
him to come home once a month only. She has been having nightmares
where she is suicidal. Please interpret/advise. |
Dear
dreamer
If your daughter is depressed
in waking life, then the dream suggests that she is much more depressed
than she is letting on and needs outside assistance. If the dream
is more metaphorical in nature, the dream suggests that your daughter
may feel as if part of her life has come to an end and she may be
worried that there is little that she can do about it. In both cases,
I think your daughter would like to talk more about her feelings but
perhaps she is having a hard time expressing herself. -
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